Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Anal sex is low-key very high maintenance. In theory, all you have to do is put a penis or object into someone's anus — but that doesn't always go smoothly, literally and figuratively. Foreplay is extra important, if not mandatory, when you're having anal sex, because you have to get the anus ready for penetration.
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For a lot of couples, it doesn't get more intimate than anal play. However, building up to the deed isn't always as easy for some as it seems to be for others which is fine — everyone should only do what they're comfortable with when they're comfortable with it , so I reached out to some of the leading experts in the field to get their tips on the best anal sex toys for couples who want to open that backdoor but still aren't sure where to start. One of the big reasons for that has to do with the anal region itself, which is filled with nerve endings, which means partners are more likely to be responsive, even to the slightest touch. To make anal play as fun as possible, Rodgers recommends plenty of lube : "Silicone lubricant lasts longer than water-based lubricant and so I always recommend it for anal intercourse. But incredible orgasms are just one of the benefits of anal play. For many couples, it can also be an intense bonding experience.
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I was 23 when my then-boyfriend attempted to introduce me to anal sex by taking a different route to our usual one, mid coitus. So I did. For about an inch. But several years later, in the throes of passion with a new lover, I did the unthinkable, and let him go out back. This time with LOTS of foreplay.